In the world of sports, it’s not uncommon for a player to get frustrated with their coaches. According to Paul Savramis, young athletes often get put “on the bench” when they fail to live up to their athletic standards or just to allow for healthy team rotation. This is disappointing, to be sure, but it’s also gotten dangerous for the coaches.
Paul Savramis explains that violence against coaches has picked up speed over the last 10 years or so. He points to a recent incident involving Long Island basketball coach Theo Czubakowski. The coach in question pulled a young player out of the game, which offended the mother and a male family member. After refusing to put him back in, the coach was then approached by the family, and violence ensued.
Czubakowski Was punched in the face, thrown to the ground, and then chased to his vehicle, where Paul Savramis says that a player had to intervene so the coach could drive himself to the hospital.
Paul Savramis laments that, unfortunately, incidents like this are all too common. Rising Stars Youth Foundation has policies in place to combat parent-on-coach violence. One of these, he explains, is a zero-tolerance rule. All student-athletes and their families are required to attend a lecture on the topic. Further, they must agree to exhibit positive sportsmanship, even when things don’t go quite the way they’d like.
Paul Savramis also points out that Rising Stars’ students and their families have more motivation than simply scoring points to be on their best behavior during games. He explains that many are enrolled in academic and community programs that they would like to continue to participate in.
To parents getting angry on the court, Paul Savramis has this advice: take a breath, and remember that it is only a game. Anytime one player sits out is an opportunity for another to shine. All players get their time in the spotlight, and it should never be because their parents resorted to violence to make it happen.